blackrain;9424814 said:7figz;9424739 said:blackrain;9424698 said:2stepz_ahead;9424667 said:blackrain;9424571 said:2stepz_ahead;9424548 said:blackrain;9424498 said:2stepz_ahead;9424312 said:jono;9424216 said:Shizlansky;9424196 said:Noggas talking bout dude momma
50 was raised by a single mother himself. That's where he get them bitch ass ways from
Yeah...these niggas blaming the mama for 50 being a shitty father. Paying child support which is 6,700 ...when you a multimillionaire that got movies and TV shows ain't nothing.
When you see Will Smith putting his son on. When you got motherfuckers like Mitt Romney and Donald Trump who had their daddies giving them millions to start businesses (on top of paying top dollar for their education) 50 is FAILING.
His son wanting nothing to do with him is some deep shit. When you publically attacking your own kid there's something wrong there.
When Young Buck came crying to 50 on some real shit only to find 50 recorded it and released it for everyone to laugh at. I'm sorry but I bet that boy mama ain't have to "brainwash" him. 50 shows his true colors on his own.
Like I said previously this is a DMX situation. 50 probably do got issues.
you bring up the dmx thing...his kid was trying to sell a platinum record for money. and THEN saying he needs therapy an get off drugs in order to have a relationship.
now I ask...does that not sound like a deflection? if x aint shit he ain't shit. you benefitted off his work and now trying to sell his work...what does that have to do with drugs or being a shitty father?
if the child needs money...why are we not holding the custodial parent to the same level as the non custodial parent?
how can you use the phrase "benefited from his work" when talking about providing for his child as if that's not what a parent is supposed to do. You don't owe your parents for providing a life for you. It's what they're supposed to do
I'm not sure where your disconnect is coming from. but I never said a parent should not provide. a parent can choose to give the basic essentials or above basic. if my parent gave me above basic because of what they earned....I owe them a degree of respect.
if I didn't have to live in a shitty area, or bad location or worry about my next meal...
I feel I would owe a certain level of respect.
the shit you saying is what a parent should do.
how many parents actually do....is another question.
So is shitting on your teenage son on instagram and publicly disowning him something a good parent does? Does that mean that child still owes their parent respect?
did you ever think it happened after the fact of not getting it?
I'm not saying he's right ....I'm saying don't be so quick to judge. none of us are perfect
Bruh he's a teenager...there's alot of shit you don't get at 17/18. It's 50 job as his father to help him understand that not to allow his frustrations with the mother to affect how he interacts with his child.
So you acknowledge the (the son) is not getting some things - cool.
As far as the bolded though, 50 said that the son has adapted his mother's way of thinking so it's beyond just the bad relationship he has with the child's mother. He is now dealing with the son directly who acts like the mom and is 18 years old.
At what point does it become the child's responsibility to rectify shit (at least on his behalf) ? Doesn't a relationship take 2 parties ?
Perhaps 50 feels that dude is old enough to make some effort as well.
50 is the reason the disconnect exists. He chose to separate himself from his child. No child makes that decision on their own. That's something the parent/s control. It's on 50 to fix what he broke in terms of his relationship with his son. His son didn't disown him...it was the other way around. If you do somebody wrong is it on them to reach out to you to rectify it or is it your responsibility, especially as their parent, to do it?
I had a longer response but I wanted to keep it short.
So, regarding the bolded, doesn't the thread premise disagree with you ? The son says he'll only talk to him if he gets therapy.
That sounds like the son is making the decision to disconnect.
And, if you're going to say it's a result of 50's actions then why can't 50's actions be a result of the circumstances as well ?
No matter how you put it, relationships are a 2-way street and, short of mind-control, people influence but don't control other individuals. In any event, I seriously doubt it's all 50's fault.
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