Fair/Foul:Teenager getting beat by his Dad outside of school decides knock his Dad to the ground...

[ms.jones]

Ehhhh, respect your kid as a human. Most parents constantly drill into their kid's head to keep their hands to themselves and to respect others. The saying should apply in all aspects, regardless of the connection.

My mom kept jabbing me in the forehead with her hard ass fingernail, and I had enough of it. Pushed her finger off, and we started banging. You can't expect to disregard your kids feelings just because you are the parent without any type of animosity, especially as the kid gets older. At a certain point, hitting and yelling just isn't the answer. You gotta find a much more creative and meaningful form of discipline.

To sum it up, fair. Daddy showed up, and got shown out.

 

[Chi Snow]

if u would knock your old pops to the ground u aint shit... as a man...

if your father hits you and doesn't expect you to defend yourself he ain't shit as a man. that kid was too old for "spanking" - at that age it's a fight.

The thing is that those two things - an ain't shit kid who hits his father and and ain't shit father who hits his son - are mutually exclusive, in this context. Because your father ain't shit, doesn't mean it's cool for you to hit him. That's just my $0.02.

He didn't hit him cause he ain't shit tho

He hit him cause he was getting whacked with a stick

You don't honestly think that's why he hit him, do you? It's pretty clear that those lil weak ass hits from that stick weren't causing any real damage. Let's be real. If the exact same situation happened at home they were alone, young boy woulda taken them lil licks and moved on.

But he caught an L in front of people at school and had to save face.

You don't hit your pops, B. Not unless he's trying to do you REAL bodily harm. Period.

Again, that's just me.

Nah I agree but his son ain't a lil kid no more. He a teenager with pride.

He knew that shit was embarrassing and wanted to humiliate him. Them hits, as soft as they were, were degrading. I doubt he would have done that @ home.

Wrong is wrong. Hitting him with a stick AND humiliating his son got him knocked on his ass and I don't feel sorry for the dude

 

[Meta_Conscious]

if u would knock your old pops to the ground u aint shit... as a man...

if your father hits you and doesn't expect you to defend yourself he ain't shit as a man. that kid was too old for "spanking" - at that age it's a fight.

nah. but g'head.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

When my son gets to that age where he too old for whoopings, I've decided what punishments he will get.

Imma be like

"You got 5 minutes to be in the back yard with these on...."

That way, im within the law....we are both getting cardio in...and he gonna learn how to fight and learn a lesson at the same time....

 

[blackrain]

Ehhhh, respect your kid as a human. Most parents constantly drill into their kid's head to keep their hands to themselves and to respect others. The saying should apply in all aspects, regardless of the connection.

My mom kept jabbing me in the forehead with her hard ass fingernail, and I had enough of it. Pushed her finger off, and we started banging. You can't expect to disregard your kids feelings just because you are the parent without any type of animosity, especially as the kid gets older. At a certain point, hitting and yelling just isn't the answer. You gotta find a much more creative and meaningful form of discipline.

To sum it up, fair. Daddy showed up, and got shown out.

I think that's something alot of people forget. Just because you're a parent doesn't entitle you to disregard or disrespect your child as if they're not a person with feelings and emotions. At times parents push that limit too far and then get shocked when their kids react like normal people and get mad or retaliate either verbally or physically if they were hit first.

 

[TalaNight]

"I'm right. Not because what I am saying can be proven correct but because I can kick your ass"

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

When my son gets to that age where he too old for whoopings, I've decided what punishments he will get.

Imma be like

"You got 5 minutes to be in the back yard with these on...."

That way, im within the law....we are both getting cardio in...and he gonna learn how to fight and learn a lesson at the same time....

boxing is dope. It'll teach him to Control his anger and get his anger out.

What's going to be his response when he has a problem w someone he can't hit tho?

As a man will you show him other alternatives to resolving an issue?

of course. You cant fight whenever you get upset. I never whoop out of anger anyway. There was a thread about patents arguing on front of kids. I said that we do because it gives him realistic expectations as well as shows conflict resolution. There isn't bad language used nor do we distepect each other. And he will even ask questions, and as long as its not a mature topic, we explain what happened. So, he is gonna have that type of self control anyway if it be the most highs will.

 

[Meta_Conscious]

parents shouldn't strike their kids out of anger.

nor should children strike their parents.

one doesn't justify the other.

 

[Crude_]

Ehhhh, respect your kid as a human. Most parents constantly drill into their kid's head to keep their hands to themselves and to respect others. The saying should apply in all aspects, regardless of the connection.

My mom kept jabbing me in the forehead with her hard ass fingernail, and I had enough of it. Pushed her finger off, and we started banging. You can't expect to disregard your kids feelings just because you are the parent without any type of animosity, especially as the kid gets older. At a certain point, hitting and yelling just isn't the answer. You gotta find a much more creative and meaningful form of discipline.

To sum it up, fair. Daddy showed up, and got shown out.

I think that's something alot of people forget. Just because you're a parent doesn't entitle you to disregard or disrespect your child as if they're not a person with feelings and emotions. At times parents push that limit too far and then get shocked when their kids react like normal people and get mad or retaliate either verbally or physically if they were hit first.

I agree with you although it won't be the popular opinion among many.

Some people will argue one should just sit and take verbal and physical abuse out of respect for the parent, but I don't really fully agree with that line of thinking...

 

[CP203]

yep i'd have shot my son on this day, fuck is wrong with that nigga hitting his father, i had to fuck my younger brother up for punching my dad in the face and i only talk to my dad twice a year

 

[Ghostdenithegawd]

So y'all wanna be smart nigga not going to take in account tgat tgis shit was being recorded? Tgat escalates the situation 10 fold

The.nigga shouldn't be beating him with no stick especially if its outside and embarrassing him then for it to be recorded for any and everybody to see at that pleasure

 

[Meta_Conscious]

nah, he should've told his bitch to swallow that worthless mafucka.

 

[bootsy_jenkins]

I love my son. I would not discipline him in from of his peers because kids remember that shit and he will have to deal with the ridicule at school. That being said, if my son ever raises his hand to me I'm gonna beat his ass like a stranger. If I am too old and feeble his ass is gonna get...

 

[StoneColdMikey]

Me and my brothers tried to control our pops once because he was beating th shit out of our other brother. He threw a glass table at us

 

[bigstevie]

Being a father he shouldnt have dogged him out in front of everyone...kid had to save face consider in he has to go back to that area...

 

[Will Munny]

Foul. Gotta respect the parents. Wasn't like his dad was whooping him with closed fists or anything.

 

[bigstevie]

Foul. Gotta respect the parents. Wasn't like his dad was whooping him with closed fists or anything.

No he was using a stick instead

 

[soul rattler]

There's fear and then there's respect. The two aren't interchangeable.

 

[Will Munny]

Foul. Gotta respect the parents. Wasn't like his dad was whooping him with closed fists or anything.

No he was using a stick instead

right because a light switch is def as bad as being hit with a closed fist gtfohwtbs

 

[Shizlansky]

My pops never embarrassed me in front others.

If I did something out of line he talked to me like a man ever since I can remember.

Hell, he never raised his voice at me even in private. He have whipped me before

But at a certain age my pops told me "I'm not gon hit you because that ain't gon do nothing, you take a beating playing sports, so I know me hitting ain't getting a point across"

When he talk, I listen.

But you not just gon put your hands on me as a man and not expect me to fight back or subdue you from hitting me.