Cheating is Cheating BUT....

[Check Mate]

In the last 7 years i've had 4 serious girlfriends. The first girl, cheated wit 11 other girls, second girl, like 15 chicks, the third girl, 18 different exactly. Never been caught one time. After the 3rd GF, we broke up and I started datin the fourth girl. This one, I haven't cheated...TECHNICALLY.

 

[blakfyahking]

that bf/gf stuff doesn't count IMO

but I also cheated on my wife, so I might appear to be a hypocrite on this topic tho

 

[caddo man]

I say your wife or husband becuase you have made a public commitmentwith marriage. Either at the Justice of Peace or a pastor, you have a ring on and vowed to be faithful.

The girlfriend/boyfriend thing is only valid to me if you have significant time.

 

[dirtyrodney]

I think ya title had it right. Cheating is cheating no matter how you wanna justify it. On some levels I get it when people who been together real long wanna try something different, its like having every cable channel but only watching Fox. After a while of the same person the mind wanders a bit. For the record I aint shit and I know it

 

[caddo man]

I dont get why it's called cheating though

How is stealing answers the same as infidelity ?

Cause both situations you are not showing integrity!

 

[Check Mate]

I told myself that IF, IF, IF, I ever got married, I wouldn't cheat on my wife.

WELL.....

By state, I am approaching the first year anniversary of my marriage. My "wife" gave birth to our son in March 2011. I'm currently on probation, so in order to get my probation transferred so I could be wit her and the baby, I had to

A. Get a job that betters the community

B. Enroll in school, or

C. Get married

LOL I said fuck option C, I'll go to school.

Option A and B aren't guaranteed, So I ended up bein forced into C

 

[NYCeeCee]

Both are equally wrong. Whether you took a vow/public commitment/signed a license or not, if you made a verbal commiment to be with a person and no one else, and you go outside of the relationship, you are a cheater.

 

[caddo man]

Both are equally wrong. Whether you took a vow/public commitment/signed a license or not, if you made a verbal commiment to be with a person and no one else, and you go outside of the relationship, you are a cheater.

I think that was established, so you are saying regardless of the fact huh?

 

[chilly]

Hmm I think its wrong if you make your girl think that its only her you hitting exclusively, but still hittin other chicks. I kinda sympathize with those that are maried but the wife/husband starts slacking or relaxing when it comes to sex just because they feel you are obligated not to stray.

 

[Check Mate]

So TECHNICALLY, I am married. Came to visit the state and my girl in November, got married, then went back to my original state til March (When I would be able to move down here permanetly). Except I was creepin wit my ex, (the girl before the current one) the whole time bein back home. My wife knows, I came clean about it, she ain't cool wit it and was furious, but whatever. (We did tell each other that this was a "business move", cause I was a little uneasy about the whole marriage thing.

Now i'm down here wit my new family and I haven't cheated on her. But DAMN, ain't nothin like some new new. This chick was peepin me out the other day and I'M WITH MY GIRL AND MY 6 MONTH OLD....Bold Bitch. Nothin happened though, no name or number exchange, just eye flirtin.

 

[NYCeeCee]

LOL, Check Mate, I read those 2 paragraphs twice and am thoroughly confused. You got a lot going on.

 

[King Erauno]

^^^^

sounds like you got married just for legal reasons. like you said a business move. shit dont count.

 

[Copper]

We all know cheating is cheating. BUT, is it WORSE to cheat on your WIFE/ HUSBAND or your SERIOUS STEADY GIRLFRIEND?

OPINIONS!!!!

if your not cheating on those options above then youre not cheating....

 

[5th Letter]

Cheating on your wife/husband. Boyfriend/girlfriend don't count imo

 

[chilly]

^^^^

sounds like you got married just for legal reasons. like you said a business move. shit dont count.

Yeah, I thought he was in a real marriage. Now its just like one of them sham marriages you saw on sitcoms back in the day that was setup for immigrants to get cictizenship and not be dported. Sounds like his wife has feelings for him even though it was a business move which could come back to hurt him if she ever got fed up or severely pissed off. But yeah, id let your wife no the deal and go about smashing whoever.

 

[Check Mate]

Hmm I think its wrong if you make your girl think that its only her you hitting exclusively, but still hittin other chicks. I kinda sympathize with those that are maried but the wife/husband starts slacking or relaxing when it comes to sex just because they feel you are obligated not to stray.

Wit the current chick, I moved in wit her from Aug '09 til Feb'10, broke up but I was still hittin, also hittin the previous ex, she didn't know about this. We still have a discussin about this sayin that I led her to believe that she was the only one I was hittin.

 

[Check Mate]

LOL, Check Mate, I read those 2 paragraphs twice and am thoroughly confused. You got a lot going on.

Not really no more LOL I now live wit my "wife" and her son, and my son in the same state. We're a family. LOL

 

[Check Mate]

^^^^

sounds like you got married just for legal reasons. like you said a business move. shit dont count.

Exactly! Business move. BUT, I've never cheated on her anyway, but I just like pussy. Now I don't go out there lookin for shit though. Matter fact the chick that was eyein me, we was in chick-fil-a. Just random shit. Scopin me out. I was feelin it. I'll probably never see her again neither. LOL

 

[Westie]

Cheating is cheating. Extra-marital affairs are worse.

And I wish someone would explain to me the extra dopeness of new pussy.

 

[blakfyahking]

Cheating is cheating. Extra-marital affairs are worse.

And I wish someone would explain to me the extra dopeness of new pussy.

how old are you shorty? LOL