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Waiting 30years to report it = Stupidity
It's deeper than that. To dismiss it as stupid is taking all of the trauma that comes from being raped and tossing it aside. That has to be considered. Just look at the entire picture.
I disagree respectfully.........i see it the same way i see my patient's thought process;
Me: How long have you been feeling this way?
Patient: About a week
Me: Have you ever felt this way before?
Patient: No
Me: You've never felt this way before and it's been a week before you thought it wise to come to the hospital?
Silence....
I don't condone stupidity period! Rape is bad but nothing's worst than allowing a rapist on the street to continue raping. Like i've said before, your thought process leaves a lot to be desired
It's more than being stupid but I'm not going to keep explaining it. I don't think some of yall are going to understand regardless.
Again, i want you to address ME. Don't group me with anyone else cos i'm debating MY opinion. It's stupidity and nothing else, you can dissect it anyway you want to. Unless there's an imbalance somewhere in the brain, a normal functioning adult who can tell right from wrong should report a crime, especially a PHYSICAL one perpetrated against them. I think you may have a point but having a hard time expressing your thoughts. Tell me the difference between the example i gave above and your "point"
I said this earlier, and all this will be is fodder for some of these niggas to ask me about personal shit like xxCivicxx did and the pimp to talk shit. It's not about you, everything I say is dissected because I'm the only female discussing this. Wonder why?
I am addressing you, and I'm not saying you're the same as anyone. I'm just tired of trying to get men to understand the effects to a woman's mentality to being raped. It's not a logical act that's done to a woman, you can't expect a logical reaction from a woman 100% that's been violated like that.
Aside from rape being "bad", does it make sense for a man to force himself on a woman? Is it a logical act to force yourself on someone who doesn't want you?
When have i said it's logical for a man to rape a woman? Only time i ever condone any act untoward a female is when they first strike a man. You don't have to delve into your personal life for me to grasp where you are coming from. You know my profession and i can spot an abused victim from afar. Again, unless you're mentally handicapped, nothing should stop you from reporting rape. (I can understand if you cohabit with the perpetrator) but this here, we'll respectfully disagree on our points.
ps: I like how your tone has changed from fiery and brimstone hang him to a more thought out responses.
I didn't say you said it was a logical act, I'm asking if it was. If it's not, I don't understand how you can expect a measured logical response to someone entering your body without your permission.
Rape DOES effect a woman's mentality. Why do you think it wouldn't? You say you can spot an abuse victim, why is that? Because their mentality has been changed. 54% of women don't report their rapes, it's all simply stupidity? Come on now, there's more to it than that.
Hormones
What do you mean by that? I want to be clear before I respond
I thought anything having to mentality=brain=chemicals=hormones? or am i misinformed?