puescobar85
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idk it depends on why, if it was by chance then whatever but if the person doesn't feel comfortable with their own skin then i can't cosign them
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Being with someone of the same race who primarily dates interracially
Bulletproof Wallets
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I really don't ask females about the other dudes that they date or dated. A broad is losing whether she dates a "nothing ass whiteboy" or a "nothing ass dude from the hood". All I'm concerned about is ME and HER
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Bulletproof Wallets;1843402 said:I really don't ask females about the other dudes that they date or dated. A broad is losing whether she dates a "nothing ass whiteboy" or a "nothing ass dude from the hood". All I'm concerned about is ME and HER
Powerful post.
Gns, would you feel the same if the dudes she had been with weren't caucasian? You seem to have strong feelings towards whites so that's prolly off the table for a rational discussion.
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KTULU IS BACK
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what if im white and im dating a black broad who primarily dates white men?
should i feel strange about that?
should i feel strange about that?
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KTULU IS BACK;1843783 said:what if im white and im dating a black broad who primarily dates white men?
should i feel strange about that?
You raise a slobberknocker of a point.
Really though, I suppose its only strange if you feel your being objectified. Or if you even care for that matter. I'm just trying to get an idea of how a person is viewed under these kind of circumstances from different perspectives.
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blakfyahking
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KTULU IS BACK;1843783 said:what if im white and im dating a black broad who primarily dates white men?
should i feel strange about that?
yeah you should feel some type of way about that............shorty might have serious issues
why would you volunteer to cuff that?
that's like a black dude cuffing Kim Kardashian and thinking shit is all sweet
far as my concern she could be potentially bugged out
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KTULU IS BACK;1843783 said:what if im white and im dating a black broad who primarily dates white men?
should i feel strange about that?
lol, like she don't like you for you, she just with u cuz u ain't black....
that shit would be a hellva mind fuck
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dusouljah;1843948 said:lol, like she don't like you for you, she just with u cuz u ain't black....
that shit would be a hellva mind fuck
This is where I get confused to a degree. If that's what she's attracted to how's it any different than a white woman who dates only white men? There's never that check in relationships of the same color/race but there seems to be a stigma when its someone who dates exclusively outside their race.
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Kairo;1843997 said:This is where I get confused to a degree. If that's what she's attracted to how's it any different than a white woman who dates only white men? There's never that check in relationships of the same color/race but there seems to be a stigma when its someone who dates exclusively outside their race.
reason why it would be a mind fuck...i mean i get ur point, but if ur the type of person who's always thking about race... u would begin to wonder about stuff like that...
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death187sin
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This is me all the way. Most of the woman I had relationships with were Hispanic. I often have a hard time adjusting to being with a black women as the culture things I'm used to aren't there. I sometimes get this depressed look on my face like "damn I miss my mami's" I dont know. It's just me really..
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Kairo;1843735 said:Powerful post.
Gns, would you feel the same if the dudes she had been with weren't caucasian? You seem to have strong feelings towards whites so that's prolly off the table for a rational discussion.
I mean it's the same difference with white girls who only dates black guys. I think it really is an identity issue, and insecurities with their own race. I dated a chick who was bi-racial, adopted by an all white family, throughout high school only dated white guys, but once got to college only dated black guys. Her reason was she never knew anything about black men because she was raised in a rich white community, and since she was already really light skin, she just thought she was one of the other white kids. So basically did what the other white girls did, including date white men, It wasn't even until she got to college that someone had to let her know she was half black.
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dusouljah;1844003 said:reason why it would be a mind fuck...i mean i get ur point, but if ur the type of person who's always thking about race... u would begin to wonder about stuff like that...
I hear you on why it would make a person stop and think. Your first post was on point, just trying to stimulate some conversation.
I get the social hierarchy aspect. Most folks say anyone non-white who dates whites is looking for approval or up their status or for whatever reason. I'm not saying those assesments are incorrect, but does it make the same impression when we start looking at the broader spectrum (I.e. the poster who said he dates only latin women)?
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Kairo;1844093 said:I hear you on why it would make a person stop and think. Your first post was on point, just trying to stimulate some conversation.
I get the social hierarchy aspect. Most folks say anyone non-white who dates whites is looking for approval or up their status or for whatever reason. I'm not saying those assesments are incorrect, but does it make the same impression when we start looking at the broader spectrum (I.e. the poster who said he dates only latin women)?
i think the whole conversation and all the different ways at looking at it points the insecurity inwards moreso than outwards...
it makes you ask yourself the question
"who's really the person with the race issues here?"
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KTULU IS BACK
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blakfyahking;1843868 said:yeah you should feel some type of way about that............shorty might have serious issues
why would you volunteer to cuff that?
that's like a black dude cuffing Kim Kardashian and thinking shit is all sweet
far as my concern she could be potentially bugged out
I think you're just hating on the hypothetical black lady for dating white men.
What's with this idea that you're some kind of psycho or race traitor of you aren't dating within your race?
It ain't 1860. It ain't even 1960.
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dusouljah;1844152 said:i think the whole conversation and all the different ways at looking at it points the insecurity inwards moreso than outwards...
it makes you ask yourself the question
"who's really the person with the race issues here?"
Ultimately this is my stance on it. I'm real open nowadays but at one time I was particular about the type of females I pursued. Race wise anyway.
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KTULU IS BACK;1844174 said:What's with this idea that you're some kind of psycho or race traitor of you aren't dating within your race?
This is what i'm getting at. Im not even talking children/family, just strictly dating.
Although I do see casual daters catch more shit for it than someone who actually marries and commits to someone outside their race.
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i've always been a fan of women...attractive women
when i was working different jobs, and going to school occasionally i came in contact with a cool ass white girl, and we would hang out and mess around... it wasn't just because she was white, it was because she was cool as shit, and most importantly attractive...lol
i dunno if anyone ever thought anything of it..like why i was chilling with those white girls or whatever.. but..eh.... them chicks was cool ppls
when i was working different jobs, and going to school occasionally i came in contact with a cool ass white girl, and we would hang out and mess around... it wasn't just because she was white, it was because she was cool as shit, and most importantly attractive...lol
i dunno if anyone ever thought anything of it..like why i was chilling with those white girls or whatever.. but..eh.... them chicks was cool ppls
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im a person who dates inter-racially. I have had black men (that I personally know) accuse me of only dating white men (when they exclusively dated one of my white friends) and having issues with it; however race shouldnt be an issue when it comes to dating because it's between you and your partner.
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charlie_danger;1844315 said:im a person who dates inter-racially. I have had black men (that I personally know) accuse me of only dating white men (when they exclusively dated one of my white friends) and having issues with it; however race shouldnt be an issue when it comes to dating because it's between you and your partner.
Interesting. Since you date interracially and have had fingers pointed at you by hypocrites, have you had any black men you've been interested in be hesitant to date you or otherwise had reservations? Your post gives the impression you don't discriminate but obviously certain people blow it out of proportion.
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