Ayo Dink maybe I got this all wrong but

[Blue Virgo]

U right about the last part, slime.
However i was in no way applying that u just stop learning @ 18 from parents, just that u apply the first 18yrs into trying to become an successful adult
I know success is gonna differ from person to person but at the end of the day unless u have a 'noble' reason u shouldn't be @ ya parents house after 18.

Okay, but let's consider that most people don't really learn a since of independence until they become around 15-16.
You know, getting your first job...having a car...etc.

So, that's really just 2 years of "knowledge". I don't think that's enough....and I guess that's where we differ.
I know a few people that moved out when they were 18 and they weren't ready...ended up moving back home.
No idea of financial responsibility or how much it really takes to live on your own, go to school, go to work, etc.

Okay, what I need more understanding on is your last statement.... "unless u have a 'noble' reason u shouldn't be @ ya parents house after 18"
Why not? You're a teenager.

What age did you move out of your home and why?
Because you wanted to or because your parent(s) made you?
Did you by any chance join a branch of military?

 

[earth two superman]

the fucks wrong with him.. he also said he has dreams of raping his grandma and mother and shit like that

LMAO is that why you wont move out dink? cuz you wanna be close to your targets? SMH!

 

[iamkang]

Everyone won't leave the house at 18.
There is no side rule that says you have to leave the house at 18.
You're supposed to start looking toward a career at 18, then making smart decisions that guide you there.

Most people won't leave the house until they're 20-24 which is perfectly acceptable if they are in college.

I left the house at 17, not because I had shitty parents, I just wanted to start out on my career so a nigga can retire early.
Being old and working is not what I want to be.

If you have the luxury of having parents that will support you while you are still trying to find out what you want to be in life, thats fine.

Being 30 and splitting bills wit mom aint acceptable. Period.

 

[Blue Virgo]

Everyone won't leave the house at 18.
There is no side rule that says you have to leave the house at 18.
You're supposed to start looking toward a career at 18, then making smart decisions that guide you there.

Most people won't leave the house until they're 20-24 which is perfectly acceptable if they are in college.

I left the house at 17, not because I had shitty parents, I just wanted to start out on my career so a nigga can retire early.
Being old and working is not what I want to be.

If you have the luxury of having parents that will support you while you are still trying to find out what you want to be in life, thats fine.

Being 30 and splitting bills wit mom aint acceptable. Period.

Wow...I'm surprised by this post.

 

[jackthemack]

Lmao I feel sorry for you vermin on the IC I swear. Y'all had rough lives B.

 

[jackthemack]

LMAO it's been four years I been on this site and niggas still take whatever I say as gospel.

 

[earth two superman]

ha ha gosh darn it. ur life sucks dink. i hope most of those arent true

 

[Blue Virgo]

Okay, you're military--that's why you haven't lived at home since 18.

 

[Ace Boon]

How does someone's living condition affect your life, like for real though?

If he's 23 still living at home, going to school, and his parents are ok with it then what's the problem?

 

[a.mann]

if you parents really care about your well being is an adult in this harsh world

they'll be doing what they can to make sure you are independent and self-sufficient of them

 

[jackthemack]

if you parents really care about your well being is an adult in this harsh world

they'll be doing what they can to make sure you are independent and self-sufficient of them

ROFL shut the fuck up dude. You reaching. It is what it is. Take your L and move on.

 

[haute]

if you parents really care about your well being is an adult in this harsh world

they'll be doing what they can to make sure you are independent and self-sufficient of them

meh parents achieve that in different ways

what works for some does't work for all

if the parents and adult children can live with it, it's fine

 

[Ace Boon]

moving out with no debt>>>>>

i should've went to a school in-state and lived w/ my parents.

fuck sallie mae

 

[jackthemack]

Niggas out here proud of paying rent and living with debt to their name.

That's wasup.

 

[Blue Virgo]

i only spent 2 1/2 yrs in fam,
I been out 6 yrs. I didn't go back home and say 'well i tried, can i get back on my feet mom?'
Nope i took what i saved and started over. I had the foresite to save cause i knew that that going home was unacceptable for me.
Some of yall can do that and that's cool. I can't. I'm away from home by choice not by force.
Blame it on me being raised that a MAN takes careof him and his. Not live off of what other people are giving them (workman mentality)

Congrats.
The point of me saying that is that since you did join the military at that age, you had a place to stay, for the time being, pretty much all expenses "paid".
Also, while you were there, you were earning a lot more money than most 18 year old kids that do not join the military.
So, you had a lil cushion for you when you got out--and you shouldn't go back home.
Like I said earlier, the rule in my home is once you leave, don't come back.

 

[iamkang]

fuck sallie mae

Realest post in the thread lmao

 

[haute]

moving out with no debt>>>>>

woooord

seriously if your parents are able to I dont see what the problem is with getting help

my parents basically took care of me financially until I was 21/22, even though I did live on my own

when I finally did start paying my bills I didn't have struggle like some people do when when theyre finished with college

 

[PLASTIC RULES]

nh @ "young cub"

 

[a.mann]

Niggas out here proud of paying rent and living with debt to their name.

That's wasup.

that's part that doesn't seem to be quite penetrating here...........its THEIRS

not moms,dads, aunt Jelene's, or cousin Cory's

 

[jackthemack]

that's part that doesn't seem to be quite penetrating here...........its THEIRS

not moms,dads, aunt Jelene's, or cousin Cory's

LMAO you obviously got a fucked up mindset. U seem to think just cuz you living on your own is admirable enuff to offset the fact that you are broke and in debt. Nigga please, go kill yourself.