Are women living their lives vicariously through Carrie Bradshaw?

  • Thread starter Thread starter New Editor
  • Start date Start date
haute;3032635 said:
Anyhoo

I think some women look at sex and the city too deeply

Truth of the matter is fathers are more active than ever

Stats show more men are active in the home as well as working

The whole family vs. work crisis is effecting men and women more evenly now

We are women, but we're not martyrs

A decent home and work life are possible, even with it's challenges, without the dramz

Good GOD, you need to let a nigga come to New York and wife you up and pipe you down.
 
Last edited:
taeboo;3032662 said:
The thing I didn't like about Carrie was she always played the victim and needed to be rescued in someway.

And she cheated on Aidan, ruined a marriage, and then went to LA to get some dick like nothing happened. Don't forget that.

How does ANY woman have sex that soon? You cheat on your boyfriend that you supposedly "love." Ruin your ex's marriage, get chased by the wife, become the bane of high society and just say "fuck it, I'ma go get some left coast dick?" REALLY?!
 
Last edited:
Idi Amin Dada;3032689 said:
And she cheated on Aidan, ruined a marriage, and then went to LA to get some dick like nothing happened. Don't forget that.

How does ANY woman have sex that soon? You cheat on your boyfriend that you supposedly "love." Ruin your ex's marriage, get chased by the wife, become the bane of high society and just say "fuck it, I'ma go get some left coast dick?" REALLY?!

Mikko_;3032707 said:
I think the way she did Aiden made every one hate her a bit....including me. Her character was just to wrapped up in Big to ever give any other dude a real chance. There are many Women like this as well. Throwing away relationships with genuinely good Men to chase after someone who doesn't want them, but usually it doesn't have a happy ending.

so, is there a carrie bradshaw in every woman? we chase after a person who'll deal with us and not really love us like a man like, adian?
 
Last edited:
Nope, it rarely does.

I HATED having Big realize he loved her. Even the actor said it was a stupid storyline that he hated to act. He was hoping they would just write his character off the show lol.

Carrie should NOT have gotten Big with all the bad karma she had.

And kudos to Miranda for fucking that black guy.
 
Last edited:
Idi Amin Dada;3032689 said:
And she cheated on Aidan, ruined a marriage, and then went to LA to get some dick like nothing happened. Don't forget that.

How does ANY woman have sex that soon? You cheat on your boyfriend that you supposedly "love." Ruin your ex's marriage, get chased by the wife, become the bane of high society and just say "fuck it, I'ma go get some left coast dick?" REALLY?!

True and then when Adian took her back she told him Big was always be in her life as a "friend" and he just needed to accept it. Talking to him on the phone, even said he could come to the country house...What man let's his woman be cool with the dude that she cheated on him with?
 
Last edited:
charlie_danger;3032739 said:
so, is there a carrie bradshaw in every woman? we chase after a person who'll deal with us and not really love us like a man like, adian?

She wasn't wrapped up in Big. If she was wrapped up in Big, she would've been single and waited for him like a simp. No, she was wrapped up in herself. She invited the nigga to Aidan's cabin on some "you guys are gonna HAVE to be friends" type shit. Why? Why can't she cut him off? They didn't have kids, and New York is a BIIIIG city they never had to see each other if they didn't want to. No, she was a selfish cunt is what she was. Nigga buys your apartment when you're about to lose it, buys the one next door, says he's gonna renovate them, and then you complain b/c the old lady didn't move out fast enough and cuz he's making too much noise when he's renovating. C'MON MANE!
 
Last edited:
Mikko_;3032797 said:
Aiden had no back bone which is why Carrie walked all over him. Remember when she invited big up to the summer cabin? There is no fucking way that would've happened with a dude that had any balls.

Man, I wish a bitch would. I probably would have ended it off that alone.
 
Last edited:
Mikko_;3032797 said:
Aiden had no back bone which is why Carrie walked all over him. Remember when she invited big up to the summer cabin? There is no fucking way that would've happened with a dude that had any balls.

I would of went ape shit. Lord.. Excuse my language kimi But the moment a woman told me something along the lines like that.. She better be running.. That something that I as a man I cannot walk away with, in terms of me being really self control/ restraint. I would of lost it..
 
Last edited:
Idi Amin Dada;3032808 said:
She wasn't wrapped up in Big. If she was wrapped up in Big, she would've been single and waited for him like a simp. No, she was wrapped up in herself. She invited the nigga to Aidan's cabin on some "you guys are gonna HAVE to be friends" type shit. Why? Why can't she cut him off? They didn't have kids, and New York is a BIIIIG city they never had to see each other if they didn't want to. No, she was a selfish cunt is what she was. Nigga buys your apartment when you're about to lose it, buys the one next door, says he's gonna renovate them, and then you complain b/c the old lady didn't move out fast enough and cuz he's making too much noise when he's renovating. C'MON MANE!

im talking about the characteristics of carrie bradshaw; not the character.
 
Last edited:
Mikko_;3032924 said:
She dated Men in the meantime but her heart was always wrapped up in Big...She was always secretly waiting on him to decide he wanted her.

No real Man would tolerate that shit. He did end up fighting Big, but he was to weak and she was bored with him. Aiden was a good dude though, I was glad when she saw that he had gotten married and had a baby:)

Right, Even though I never watch the show.. From his character. as you displaying. He was simply a nice guy with no backbone/spine what so ever and from her character just from reading in here.. She was manipulative. She knew he had no spine and can control him anyway she desired.. Walk over him and such.. Have him agreed to anything.. Also it 'sad that you have women like that.. who make it harder for real hardworking women and it's also sad that you simply have men, who can't stand up for themselves..
 
Last edited:
Wow this thread is getting really chocolate like.Nah mean.Fuck them white bitches show I need me some dark women show.Them broads got no hips.
 
Last edited:
Cabana_Da_Don;3033028 said:
Wow this thread is getting really chocolate like.Nah mean.Fuck them white bitches show I need me some dark women show.Them broads got no hips.

Single Ladies??
 
Last edited:
Idi Amin Dada;3032808 said:
She wasn't wrapped up in Big. If she was wrapped up in Big, she would've been single and waited for him like a simp. No, she was wrapped up in herself. She invited the nigga to Aidan's cabin on some "you guys are gonna HAVE to be friends" type shit. Why? Why can't she cut him off? They didn't have kids, and New York is a BIIIIG city they never had to see each other if they didn't want to. No, she was a selfish cunt is what she was. Nigga buys your apartment when you're about to lose it, buys the one next door, says he's gonna renovate them, and then you complain b/c the old lady didn't move out fast enough and cuz he's making too much noise when he's renovating. C'MON MANE!

I agree, her relationship with Aiden turned me off to her. But, she was just lost. I don't think she was a manipulative, golddigging, selfish c**t (aside from her cheating with Big). I just don't get the anger..... I don't find her to be as offensive as some people do. She f**ked up- true. And she's definitely not a role model that women should be trying to live through.

I just find it funny that people will say things like "well at least Samantha was honest and upfront about hers" knowing damn well that same honesty will get turned around and used against her in a heartbeat.
 
Last edited:
Cabana_Da_Don;3033101 said:
Im still salty because they didnt have a strong black women on the show.I mean strong like lisa raye strong.

They did....its called "Girlfriends"
 
Last edited:
I watched the show. Freshman year, I was the only dude with a TV in my dorm room and every night at 12, I had 3 hood niggas watching Sex & the City.

No homo.

I liked Charlotte. Despite the fact that she was looking for Mr. Perfect, she's the kind of woman that could see myself with. Despite being in a city like New York, she never became jaded like her friends. SMH @ her husband Trey. Nigga had ED and was a momma's boy.
 
Last edited:
blackrain;3031749 said:
I actually had to watch the first Sex & The City film and write a paper about it for a class I took my senior year...those heffas make all women look stupid

.........................................
 
Last edited:

Members online

Trending content

Thread statistics

Created
-,
Last reply from
-,
Replies
80
Views
155
Back
Top
Menu
Your profile
Post thread…