Are American Men Becoming Feminized? If So, How and Why?

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The same way women have come to be encouraged to take on traditionally have been masculine roles...Many men have been encouraged that it's okay to get in touch with your feminine side...IE crying doesn't make you soft, dancing is okay, being a stay at home dad is admirable, it's not that important to learn how to fight, manscaping, etc...
 
Materialism and individualism in urban society has pushed the women to go get it.

We men are educated as if we are still living in horn fields we were going to work while the woman was staying at home cooking and cleaning.

This order has not his place in urban societies, but fathers have not changed the way they educate boys.

Thus when they get into adulthood, there codes are not matching to those of urban society. as a result they are stressed and frustrated.

So they seek ways to accomodate with the urban woman... or they dont.

That being said its not only a feminization era. Its also a degentrification one. What is masculine? What is feminine? What is gay? All these questions are geting more and more difficult to answer.

Lets take the recent pic of Wiz Khalifa . he wears jeggings : kinda feminin / gay. But he fucks Amber Rose. Who is sure about his sexuality?

Everything gets blurry for one purpose : consumptions.

Men and women buy creams, get rid of their pubic, get their nails and eyebrows done to the salon. They wear jeggings , skinny and baggy jeans, scarfs etc. In a nutshell, the industry somewhat dopels his sellings that way.
 
No, it's no different than Roman and Egyptian and Babylon times. It's just that cultures change and come back around full swing. Nothing new under the sun. As long as you can provide and take of your responsibilities than its all good.
 
Tbh, many, many of "traditionally masculine" characteristics are inadequate, unnecessary, and primitive.
 
We keep giving them handouts, and putting them in top positions.

And you can see it if you check these ic females comments on they profiles.
 
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EmperorRises;6695927 said:
No, it's no different than Roman and Egyptian and Babylon times. It's just that cultures change and come back around full swing. Nothing new under the sun. As long as you can provide and take of your responsibilities than its all good.

However when you have been taught for your whole childhood that you would be the main provider, having a woman with a higher salary could be psychologically problematic for the man.
 
LEMMY_MANTIS;6695941 said:
EmperorRises;6695927 said:
No, it's no different than Roman and Egyptian and Babylon times. It's just that cultures change and come back around full swing. Nothing new under the sun. As long as you can provide and take of your responsibilities than its all good.

However when you have been taught for your whole childhood that you would be the main provider, having a woman with a higher salary could be psychologically problematic for the man.

For the ones who rely on their ego. I only care if the bills are paid and our children are healthy and have a sound mind. If I rely on my ego to deter me from a good woman than I'm not a good man. Money isn't a measure of a person wealth. I could make 60 grand and she 70 grand. But if we work together instead against each other we could be making a million together. We all believe in demeaning lies as a child it's up to as adults to correct this behavior and give our children a new golden path.

 
LEMMY_MANTIS;6695941 said:
EmperorRises;6695927 said:
No, it's no different than Roman and Egyptian and Babylon times. It's just that cultures change and come back around full swing. Nothing new under the sun. As long as you can provide and take of your responsibilities than its all good.

However when you have been taught for your whole childhood that you would be the main provider, having a woman with a higher salary could be psychologically problematic for the man.

Black women have been the main providers in the our community for a long time. Not all chase Child Support.. Even that is changing as evidenced by the CDC report. If black men becoming more nurturing is feminizing them i guess it's accurate.
 
eyebeenthis;6695940 said:
We keep giving them handouts, and putting them in top positions.

And you can see it if you check these ic females comments on they profiles.

You can also see it if you check these IC males comments..plenty show bitch tendencies.

 
Kat;6695961 said:
eyebeenthis;6695940 said:
We keep giving them handouts, and putting them in top positions.

And you can see it if you check these ic females comments on they profiles.

You can also see it if you check these IC males comments..plenty show bitch tendencies.

exactly, and don't get me started on nude pics.

idk which gender does this the most here. but what comes after smh.
 
Alot of these "worries" are simply rehashed issues from one generation of youth culture to the next and like always some of the complaints people make are contradictory
 
Men dont become feminine.

Its a bunch of boys out here trying to figure shit out that are trying to find their "man" and going in the wrong direction.

 

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