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Nah I don't want to know every little aspect of my SO's life. There are some things that I honestly probably rather not know. Although two people are in a trusting relationship there should be a certain level of privacy. Knowing her email history and such is going to do nothing to help the harmony of our relationship and is probably just going to have me end up not trusting her and vice versa. Now if she has some bad disease, has a criminal record, or some history of mental illness I'd like to know stuff like that but in all honesty the rest of that ish is irrelevant. If its nothing thats going to put my life, health, or finances in jeopardy its probably just better that she keep that shit to herself. This is just my opinion though.
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Pura~Diabla
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You can always hire your own private investigator.
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Louisiana Crude;2539352 said:Nah I don't want to know every little aspect of my SO's life. There are some things that I honestly probably rather not know. Although two people are in a trusting relationship there should be a certain level of privacy. Knowing her email history and such is going to do nothing to help the harmony of our relationship and is probably just going to have me end up not trusting her and vice versa. Now if she has some bad disease, has a criminal record, or some history of mental illness I'd like to know stuff like that but in all honesty the rest of that ish is irrelevant. If its nothing thats going to put my life, health, or finances in jeopardy its probably just better that she keep that shit to herself. This is just my opinion though.
you might wanna know who you dealing with. she could have a past of cheating, or sleeping around, or she may have be getting down for a few dollars.. that type of information is needed.
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meekins;2539368 said:you might wanna know who you dealing with. she could have a past of cheating, or sleeping around, or she may have be getting down for a few dollars.. that type of information is needed.
I understand what you saying but that type of information is not something that a female is generally going to offer up to you. If you get knowledge of that kind of stuff it would generally be way down the road or when you heard it through word of mouth from some outside source. That type of information is needed, and in a perfect world a potential SO would give it to you, but as we both know we don't live in a perfect world. That isn't something some brawd is about to share with you off top. Just like with me for example, I've cheated and did all type of stuff but that isn't the type of information that I generally offer up on a first date or even the first few. Now if we get down the road and I see Im really feeling the person then I might tell the potential SO about my past, but generally it doesn't get that point with most women I deal with.
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mryounggun
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meekins;2539315 said:hell yea.. you gotta be slick about, but dont wanna seem like you on no stalker shid, at the same time.
Lol. Nigga that's what it is...stalker shit.
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Louisiana Crude;2539352 said:Nah I don't want to know every little aspect of my SO's life. There are some things that I honestly probably rather not know. Although two people are in a trusting relationship there should be a certain level of privacy. Knowing her email history and such is going to do nothing to help the harmony of our relationship and is probably just going to have me end up not trusting her and vice versa. Now if she has some bad disease, has a criminal record, or some history of mental illness I'd like to know stuff like that but in all honesty the rest of that ish is irrelevant. If its nothing thats going to put my life, health, or finances in jeopardy its probably just better that she keep that shit to herself. This is just my opinion though.
Don't come crying to us when you find out a deep, dark secret when you're already so far in.
Better to find things out from jump.
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mryounggun;2539401 said:Lol. Nigga that's what it is...stalker shit.
theres a difference from being a stalker and being rightfully curious... that, my fwend... is rightfully curious.
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American.Loo
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Tread lightly threadstarter.
While i respect your neverending quest for information, remember this...
"He who gains knowledge, gains sorrow"
Man is not meant to know absolutely everything.
While i respect your neverending quest for information, remember this...
"He who gains knowledge, gains sorrow"
Man is not meant to know absolutely everything.
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mryounggun
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I swear y'all niggas is sounding like Robocops in this bitch. I honestly think that if you require that from a woman, you should be single for the rest of your life.
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think;2539402 said:Don't come crying to us when you find out a deep, dark secret when you're already so far in.
Better to find things out from jump.
Say what you want but anybody you mess with you taking a chance. You acting like a girl is about to tell you she sleeps around. You just got use your common sense and deductive reasoning and make a judgement for yourself. Most people not about to tell you deep dark secrets especially early on. You acting like you about to tell that dime piece you trying to holla at you sleep around with a lot of women get the hell outta here with that man.
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Bussy_Getta
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I told my bf all my biz from the jump
i thank sweet baby jesus i did too
i thank sweet baby jesus i did too
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Pura~Diabla
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Oh damn, I thought this was a joke thread.
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pico rivera;2539428 said:I told my bf all my biz from the jump
i thank sweet baby jesus i did too
which prolly was just a tongue kiss on a dare. i dont see you the type to have a dirty past.
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Louisiana Crude;2539426 said:Say what you want but anybody you mess with you taking a chance. You acting like a girl is about to tell you she sleeps around. You just got use your common sense and deductive reasoning and make a judgement for yourself. Most people not about to tell you deep dark secrets especially early on. You acting like you about to tell that dime piece you trying to holla at you sleep around with a lot of women get the hell outta here with that man.
Yeah you're taking a chance, but you can minimize your fears by asking questions and investigating early on. I'm the type of person that wants all the cards on the table from jump.
I don't want to have to know about some huge surprise and blow up in my face.
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American.Loo;2539415 said:Tread lightly threadstarter.
While i respect your neverending quest for information, remember this...
"He who gains knowledge, gains sorrow"
Man is not meant to know absolutely everything.
Same thing I said I don't need to know every little aspect of someones past because to be honest if they knew every little aspect of mine they probably would want to talk to me. I've done a lot of shit my damn self. A lot of cats do shady shit but want to turn around get mad at others for doing the same shady shit and not being upfront when they themselves weren't upfront. If the shit isn't jeopardizing my life, health, or finances then it isn't that serious. If shes a whore or been tricking on the side I'm sure that shit will come out at some point and I will act accordingly. You taking a chance with anyone you talk too.
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mryounggun
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If any women were to ever as me for my screennames, passwords, phone bills, etc...she'd definitely get laughed at. Tell her ass to grow the fuck up.
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think;2539445 said:Yeah you're taking a chance, but you can minimize your fears by asking questions and investigating early on. I'm the type of person that wants all the cards on the table from jump.
I don't want to have to know about some huge surprise and blow up in my face.
I do ask questions and draw conclusion and assumptions from the answers I get but I don't worry too much past that. Whats done in the dark generally comes to the light. If they're lying or hiding stuff it will eventually come out or I will figure it out on my own generally.
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