All I Meet is Girls With Boyfriends

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Or she's got kids or she's fat and or ugly......I feel ya bruh we just gotta keep looking.
 
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But then do you notice when you're not single you're like a magnet and there opportunity in abundance? Temptation's game.
 
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BiblicalAtheist;2151049 said:
But then do you notice when you're not single you're like a magnet and there opportunity in abundance? Temptation's game.

You aint never lied, ridiculous
 
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So? i mean yea same with me but u gotta be aggresive on some "so how bout i whoop out mr.charlie n he'll do the talkin" lol jk bout dat but real talk i jus be like "U got a man? then why aint he here wit u at this party havin a good time wit u? he cant make no time for u? yada yada yada"

or sometimes its like

Me: how you doin? whatchu up to tonight

Her:Jus goin to see my bf soon

Me: So u gon come see me soon then

Her: *laughs* u so crazy, u gon make a girl so happy one day

Me: Naw i already got my eye on makin someone special happy

her: who?

Me:u girl, u should be doin this n that....blah blah blah

Girl: blushes

idk to each his own lol, but ill stop when she tell me stop, jus cuz she got a bf dont mean she wants u to stop hittin on her, maybe her man aint givin her wat she wants, u never kno till u try. Ive taken mad Ls with this but a decent amount of Ws with this as well

i jus be aggressive n it works some broads wanna hear dat, they love a dude on the pursuit, it works but it doesnt work on girls who really down for they man
 
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The biggest lesson I learned was not to believe shit when a woman says she has a man. The chick really did have a man, but later on she told me I should had kept pursuing because she had a boyfriend, not married. Even since then, I haven't given a fuck. You just have to conquer regardless.

As for a woman married, It's 2011. If a woman tells me that, all that shit means to me is that her and her husband share a closet together. LOL
 
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I never ask a chick do she got a ol nigga, because I care less. but if she voluntarily & say she dont then thats a big bonus
 
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I never asks, i research and when i find out the shit dissapoints me. Im not tryna fuck with nobody else girl, im past that
 
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ICame4Pussy;2152907 said:
I never asks, i research and when i find out the shit dissapoints me. Im not tryna fuck with nobody else girl, im past that

cosign post

@ bolded, yea that shss get nerve wrecking at times. bishes sneaking on the phones in shss, thats why I stay messin with them single, no kids chicks. Thats golden living
 
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T. Sanford;2152937 said:
cosign post

@ bolded, yea that shss get nerve wrecking at times. bishes sneaking on the phones in shss, thats why I stay messin with them single, no kids chicks. Thats golden living

Thats a hard as a combo to find
 
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ICame4Pussy;2152907 said:
I never asks, i research and when i find out the shit dissapoints me. Im not tryna fuck with nobody else girl, im past that

This doesnt make sense to me, i mean why not ask then. And i know its not just me but if the girls man isnt treating her right to the point where she cheats....then ill be the guy, who cares lol.
 
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blackdemo;2151666 said:
Me: how you doin? whatchu up to tonight

You telegraphed too much interest. When you did this you've afectlly just included yourself with the othere 42 niggas who've tried to holla at her during the course of the week.

]Her:Jus goin to see my bf soon

Me: So u gon come see me soon then

Again you're telegraphing to too much interest. You're pushing forward, while she's disengaging. Here you should've disqualifed yourself as a suitor, (acted like your not trying to holla.) You shoul've said this.

Chick: Jus goin' to see my bf soon.

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What a conicidence, I'm getting up with my man later too. He bought me some Chinese food and a slurpee. We're going to watch MMA. Most niggas are too much of a homophobe to say some shit like this, but believe me it it works. It makes the chick laugh and and will buy you another few minutes.
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Her: *laughs* u so crazy, u gon make a girl so happy one day

Me: Naw i already got my eye on makin someone special happy]

her: who?Me:u girl, u should be doin this n that....blah blah blah

Girl: blushes


This was a slight Indicator of Interest. The chick started to dig you. Unfortunately, instead of building on that attraction, you invertingly feed into her ego by giving her unwarranted attention and compliments. This what you should've said:

Her: U so crazy, u gon make a girl so happy one day.

blackdemo;2151666: Naw, I already got my eye on makin someone special

her:Who? (she knows the answer to this question and knows damn well you're going to say her, so after setting her up with a 94 mph faster, you hit her with a 86 mph changeup,)

blackdemo: This friend of mine, her birthday is coming up and I wanted to get her something nice for her birthday. I was trying to decide on what would be a cool gift. Any suggestions?


I know what you're thinking and this shit sounds counterintutive, but it does the following things.

1) disqualifies yourself as the next nigga trying to holla.

2) Shows that other women find you attractive and that you can get other woman. The easiest way to get a chick to like is to show that other women want you.

3) You withdrew your attention. See you're feeding her ego with all of this positive reinforcement, but now you've suddenly withdrew it. She's going to want to get those good feelings back, so she's going to work on getting your attention and proving to you thats she's worthy.



Reasons Why She'll Tell You She Has A Boyfriend

The following come from "The Mystery Method," By Mystery page 36

Nine times out of ten, when a woman says, " I have a boyfriend," what this translates to is, "You just telegraphed too much interest."

It has nothing to do with whether she actually has a boyfriend. In fact if she is attracted to you, she will often deliberately hide the boyfriend from you until after you have had sex with her.

Whether she mentions him or not in no way proves that he actually exists-only that she had a motive to mention him.

1) Though she doesn't have a boyfriend, she's not attracted to you or you miscalibrated your escalation.

2) She DOES have a boyfriend and, given her current options, she has chosen to stick with that relationship.

3) She DOES have a boyfriend and is willing to sleep with you but wants to make sure that you understand her situation first. She wants DISCRETION and understanding. And though she might be available to you for sex, she NOT immediately available for more of a commitment.

4) She DOES have a boyfriend and she IS willing to cheat on him (they often are if your game is tight,) but she doesn't want to feel guilty about it. This is her RATIONALIZATION process at work. As long as she mentions the boyfriend BEFORE sleeping with you, she can rationalize to herself that it was YOUR FAULT. Sure, she might regret it later, but that won't necessarily stop her from cheating.

5) She DOESN'T have a boyfriend and she IS attracted to you; she just doesn't want to look like a loser who can't get a man. Most hot women have orbiters anyway: nice guys who pose as their friends but secretly want to sleep with them. Since the word "boyfriend," can have so many different meanings, she is thinking of one of her orbitors as a "place keeper."

THE BOTTOM LINE IS, DON'T ASK ABOUT HER BOYFRIEND AND DON'T APPEAR FAZED IF SHE MENTIONS HIM. HE MAY NOT EVEN EXIST. JUST TAKE AS AN INSTANCE OF LACK OF INTEREST CAUSED BY YOU TELEGRAPHING TOO MUCH INTEREST FAR TOO SOON.

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[treysongz] It's mister steal yo girl [/treysongz]

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